Well, good news and bad news. I haven’t been blogging a lot. I’ll let you decide if that’s in the good or bad news category.
I HAVE been writing though and that’s definitely good. I entered “Shaping Fate” in a contest, so fingers crossed. If nothing else, I know the feedback will be useful, just like when I entered Pike’s Peak. And then, I think it’s time to let out into the cold cruel world and see what happens.
I got inspired by my mini muse, my daughter. She requested that her training wheels be removed from her bike. There was no hemming and hawing about this, just a simple, “I think we should take those training wheels off.” Obviously, as a seven-year-old, she has a certain fearlessness, naivety about the world around her, which is great. She saw taking the training wheels off as another step toward independence. I saw it as that too, but the mom part of me also saw scraped knees, bruised egos and possible emergency room trips. But none of that occurred to her, or if it did, it was a marginal thought at best. She put on her helmet, my husband removed the training wheels and with a minimal amount of seat holding and running along side her, she had it down.
I’ve been with my book for longer than my daughter has been alive. Writing, editing, entering in contests, taking it to writer’s groups, more editing. All of these things are writer’s training wheels. And we DO need them at first. But how long is too long? I’m on my ninth draft, and I feel it’s as good as I can make it on my own. I’ll see what the comments say from the contest it’s in now and then, I think it’s time to take off the training wheels and see what happens.
If I do end up in the hospital though, please visit.
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Take those training wheels off sister and get ready for the ride of your life!
Aww, that’s sweet. And so much better that my youngest who is starting driver’s training next week. EEEEK!!!!!
Blessings
Michelle V
I really like the metaphor of training wheels and how it so beautifully correlates to your angst about the manuscript. I , too, believe there comes a point when you can revise it too much, edit the life out of it.
You’ll catch your balance quick enough when you take ‘em off ;^)
I commend you for stepping back from blogging to concentrate on your writing. Best wishes for your success!
Good for you, Vanessa. I had to laugh when you were talking about your daughter. My oldest daughter wouldn’t ride without them, but the youngest was bugging us to take them off for months. I finally relented, and no hospital trips–yet.
Good luck with the contest. Hope you get some great feedback.
Cheryl
Good luck riding without your training wheels, V. R. May only the exhilaration of wind in your face and adrenaline in your veins follow your first flight.
Great analogy! I think it is easier if you approach it with the same attitude as your daughter and her bike. Don’t think about the scraped knees. Think about riding fast and free. Once you let this manuscript go, then you can move those training wheels onto another one, and become an even better rider!
Best of luck!
What an excellent and insightful post! Great comparison and the best of luck to both you and your daughter – you both will do awesomely!!!!
…sure you could rewrite and revise it another 9 times. To what end? Surely you must be already working on others needing attention. Are you self-pubbing? You need to get it up, running and generating income and attention. Geeish Vr, you’re a writer…is this one book defining your career? Am thinking someday you’ll look back on this daughter occurrence as a tipping point.
It’s time to move on.
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