Ok, so we’ve moved, I don’t have a commute anymore…well, I do, but it’s to the coffee maker then to my desk. Then it’s riding the wild Internet for the day job. A five second commute back to the living room and on with the rest of my life.
I noticed that somehow, my 3 hours that used to be spent driving to and from work was STILL being eaten up, but not by driving or more constructive pursuits. Not consistently anyway. Then, I had an epiphany of sorts. I haven’t changed my habits at all. After all, the commute wasn’t my only obstacle in the way of getting things done. Between the day job and personal life, I often feel scattered. I love to collect information, but then rarely do I get around to processing it and doing anything with it. I realized this yesterday when I looked at my Google Reader. Holy mother of ding-dongs…Sooooooooo many blogs…soooooooooo many RSS feeds. More than any human could ever read if they wanted to. And why? Because I saw a cool article there once and decided it would be useful info to have, and one day, I’ll actually get around to reading it. All I need is some time!
Now, I have more time, yet I still didn’t read it. So, I deleted it. And about a zillion other blogs that I saw one cool piece of info, and never read again. Think of it like an episode of “Hoarders” but with RSS feeds. Much more sanitary, but just as disturbing. Why did I have all that stuff? That’s the same question I asked myself when we were moving. Some stuff, you need. Some stuff, provides stability, etc. But MOST stuff, in and of itself, is not necessary. We like it, but we don’t need it. Turns out, it’s the same for RSS feeds. And I realized that not only was I not reading the majority of them, I wasn’t really reading any of them, because what would happen was I’d see that huuuuuuuge list of feeds and feel overwhelmed and close the window. I don’t think I’m alone in this, but correct me if I’m wrong. Pick a huge unmanageable task. You see it, you start feeling overwhelmed, you have no idea where to begin, so you shut down and it said task never gets done.
This can happen with cleaning, homework, packing, moving, and you guessed it…writing. I have an idea for a book, I don’t know where to start, I’m overwhelmed, and no writing occurs. Has that ever happened to you? That’s when I usually pull out the Fabulous Approach from a previous post. By no means foolproof, but if nothing else, it’s a snappy little song to have stuck in your head.
So now that I’ve hacked away at my Google Reader to a manageable few feeds, it’s not as overwhelming. I feel more in control of it. It’s kind of like anything else, it’s not about how many tools you have, but how effectively you can use them. So I’ll start using less tools, but using them more efficiently.
Do you see any of this in your own life? What do you do to simplify things so they’re easier to manage? Or are you just one of the lucky people who was like that all along?
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I need to simplify a lot more too. I see it all the time around me. It’s just getting down to doing it. I’ve been trying, but it’s in bits and pieces. One thing I’m glad for is that I don’t use a google reader – and I only bookmark a site if I actually like the whole thing. So my internet is a little cluttered – but far less cluttered than my real life
Whoa – The same thing for me. I saw something interesting on the Huffington Post earlier this week and thought, hmm.. maybe I should subscribe to the RSS feed. Three hours and 60 (really, 60!) new feeds later, I promptly unsubscribed. Too much information!!
If you have room for one more subscription, I recommend mnmlist.com (http://mnmlist.com/feed/). Good content and it’s generally related to this post. Simplify.
I should to take a closer look at which feeds I’m reading and what I’m just shuffling past each day so I can get to the next thing on my to-do list. Don’t worry, Coffee and a Keyboard will stay in my subscription list.
Thanks!
I need to thin down and clear out my Google reader too. I’ve got a lot of stuff there I don’t need, and usually don’t want. That isn’t a HUGE number, but I do have a habit of hitting “Mark All as Read” a lot, which tells me some of them shouldn’t be there at all.
Good insights! If your method isn’t working for you, let me know. I’ve found some things which might help you get your writing off the ground.
Dane, ALWAYS happy to hear suggestions. Fire when ready!
Ann,
Whew, thanks! Although…I would totally understand if you deleted this blog. It can’t be fun reading about my neurosis or stories where invariably, somebody will die. But I do appreciate it.
And I will add that other feed to the list. Strangely, any blog you have recommended made the final cut in my slash and burn yesterday. So this one is probably good too.
Ouch V! You hit me where I live! And it hurts!
I think that’s been the underlying problem with the fabled Daniel book.
And I have discovered that I have to have a cause that I feel passionale about and then I’m a prolific writer. I’ve noticed that I’ve been doing most of my writing on the Hayes Township Watchdog Blog. Who knew?
I’ll be getting pix of the motorcycle up this weekend too.
Anyway, Sometimes it’s hard to break down our elephants into the one bite at at time we need to take. (How do you eat an elephant?) I have discovered that the perfectionist in me also hinders my writing. I always want my first draft to be perfect and polished (like Lysi always seems to be – you know what I mean). And since I don’t have time for that, I find myself paralyzed and don’t write.
**sigh**
O woeful and soul crushing commute of mine, how I wish you were dead. As a former fellow commuter, its good to know that your 3 hour commute has not gone away in principle, but has just morphed into a new and equally unproductive time killer. Misery loves company is what I am talking about.
Hope your new extra sleek and streamlined web life affords you more time to ponder life and don’t you just miss those 3,000 equally miserable faces you used to see out of the corner of your eye every day on the way to work ? I thought not.. Have a great day !!
It’s so easy to become overwhelmed. That’s why I try to keep clutter down and I’m notorious for throwing things away that we might need at some point.
I use spreadsheets to track almost everything. It sounds cumbersome, but it certainly helps me know what’s going on in many of my worlds within a few seconds.
Karen…I think I DID hit a nerve, and not just with you, but I like your advice about the elephant. I often feel bad about not getting enough done, but then not realizing how much I actually HAVE accomplished, even if it wasn’t what I set out to do. I hope that made sense.
Sean…damn right misery loves company. But then, I’d say happiness loves company too. And no, I don’t miss my 3,000 closest commuter friends. I do wish they could find a way out of the parking lot that is I-95.
Cheryl…I love the idea of the spreadsheets. I have them for my finances and other things, and you’re right they do help. I think if a person can feel more in control of a situation, then it becomes LESS overwhelming. It’s a theory anyway.
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